Ever dreamed of being a rock star on a gigantic stage with a
killer band behind you and adoring fans in front of you? Sure you have. Most
people at least fantasize about singing well, and many enjoy the idea of being worshiped
by a crowd of 80,000 people.
Although I never played to a crowd that large and
didn’t enjoy international success as a rock star, I have an idea of what it feels
like to be onstage and have rubbed shoulders with some of the biggest names in the
business thirty years ago, when I was a rock singer. Although I never grilled
George Harrison or Alice Cooper on how it feels to be them, I have been around
them at parties. Enough to know the person you see on stage performing is very different from the
one you see at the grocery store.And from my own experience as a singer and actress, I have always been fascinated with the idea of the rock star as a real person. Here’s some of my observations over the years I was an entertainer...
Fact 1: Smoke and Mirrors - The expression ‘it’s all smoke
and mirrors’ is one that must be clarified to understand the strange
relationship between rock star and audience member. The stage, the lights, the
music, the costume, the makeup (in Alice Cooper’s case) all contributes to the
moment they are the rock star, not the guy or gal at the DMV lineup. Rock stars
only exist on stage or when they believe they are being watched by someone who
expects the rock star image.
Fact 2: Drugs – Although Ozzy Osbourne is famous for this
behavior, many rock stars or performers are not tolerant of drugs and have a
firm anti-drug policy among their crew. Do you hear me, Justin Bieber?
Fact 3: Trashing hotel rooms – When the show is over, many
celebrities go home to wash the dishes, put their feet up, or at least call
their kids and wife from the hotel room. The trashing of hotel rooms, entertaining
groupies and having wild parties is counter-productive for a year-long tour and
most of those stories of bad behavior were/are for publicity sake. Ever hear
the phrase “no bad publicity”?
Fact 4: Taking care of the Voice – Lead singers baby their
voices, coddle the vocal chords and aren’t about to jeopardize their ability to
sing. Thus, rest and silence are key when on tour.
Fact 5: Costumes – Very few rock stars (except maybe Tommy
Lee and the lead singer of Poison) actually walk around with the rock star look
24/7. Before tattoos, piercings, black leather and long hair, they posed for
class pictures with collared shirts.
Fact 6: Female Rock Stars – Although we associate the phrase
‘rock star’ with crazy, wild, irresponsible men, there are many women rock
stars out there who go backstage to diaper their baby on set breaks, call their
husbands when the show is over and worry about bloating in their tight leather
and chains costume. Pat Benatar, Patty Smyth, Ann Wilson, Joan Jett, Lita Ford
even Pink, Fergie and Madonna have earned their places as women in rock with their
talent, hard work, and perseverance. It’s a rough life for a woman who also wants
to parent, have a garden, live some semblance of normality.
Although we love to adore, worship and revere them, Rock Stars put their pants on one leg at a time, worry about their children’s grades, get pimples, take vitamins. They are people too, ordinary folk who have relatives, love Christmas, spill food on their clean white shirts-- except for that moment on stage when they become the image they’ve worked so hard to create, the rock God, the amazing singer, the larger-than-life character who feeds our need to adore someone on a pedestal. For the duration of their show, they are ROCK STARS but after the show, they are just like us.
ABOUT THE AUTHOR
Kim Hornsby is the author of Necessary Detour, the Amazon Best Selling Novel about a retired
female rock star who hides from the media when she retires and can’t stop
spying on the strange family across the bay. In this novel Goldy, the
internationally beloved rock star, shows us a real person with insecurities
alongside her amazing talent. Check it out to get inside the head of a rock
star!
Fantastic post! I love the insight into behind the scenes of rock stars. What awesome memories you must have. Loved Necessary Detour, and I could tell you knew about the life of a rock star.
ReplyDeleteAwesome post! I loved getting a new perspective on a lifestyle I always believed was wild and crazy. :) I guess I believed the publicity, eh? Although, I'm sure there are some performers who live up to their publicity.
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